Girls Only Advice

SEPT/OCT ARCHIVE

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Dear Ashley,
ok heres the deal, theres this guy in my class that likes me ( i like him also) and all my friends tell me , but now it seems that im invisable or something. he walks up to me sometimes and wants to say something but then comes up with this lame excuse like " oh man i totally forgot what i was going to say" and its starting to bother me. how can i get him to notice me a little more like he used to and get him to actually say those 6 words??

invisable (13), NJ

-Dear Invisable-
I think that this guy probably likes you and is just really shy. He probably just has a fear of rejection or maybe just isn't outgoing enough to ask you out. The best way to handle this and get it out of the way is to just ask him out. If you don't want to do that maybe you could just make sure he knows you like him. So that he won't be afraid of rejection. Get one of your friends to tell him you like him, or even you, you could just tell him you really like him.
Hope this helps, let me know the results!
Luv...Ashley

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Dear Ashley,
I have a prob! This guy asked me out last week in a letter, he said "maybe we could get together sometime and go out to a movie or something". I said "sure"! Well, neither of us has mentioned it since then. I need to know how, if i should, to ask him cuz i really wanna go out w/ him! Please reply ASAP!

In Need Of Help (14), SC

-Dear In Need Of Help-
You are probably shy, if not this shouldn't be a problem. Call him or write him a note, (or if you aren't shy just go up to him), and ask him if he would like to go to the movie's with you this Friday. If you don't want to say that ask him if your plans for the movie's are still on. He obviously likes you if he asked you before, so you shouldn't be afraid of rejection.
Hope this helps,
Luv...Ashley

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